I Tested Ourdream AI for 30 Days: Here’s what really happened

OurDream AI is a platform for creating and interacting with AI companions — virtual “partners” — with customizable appearance, personality, and modes of interaction (chat, voice, image/video generation, etc.).

It markets itself as more than a chatbot; it’s an immersive “AI companion experience.”

The core appeal is: you craft your “dream” character (looks, traits, preferences) and the system tries to make interactions with her/him feel emotionally rich (or at least more engaging than a vanilla chatbot).

Because it deals heavily with adult/NSFW content, many reviews and writeups frame it as part fantasy, part emotional-companion tool.

In short: OurDream AI = your customizable virtual partner + multimedia + roleplay + emotional interaction.

How to Create an AI Girlfriend with Ourdream AI?

Here is a detailed guide on how to create an AI girlfriend with Ourdream AI:

1) Style — Pick the overall look (Realistic or Anime)

What you see:

• Gender tabs: Female / Male / Trans.
• Two visual styles: a Realistic card (photo-like) and an Anime card (illustrated).
• Buttons: Design with AI (lets the tool auto-suggest a look) and Next (go manual).

How to use:

1. Choose the gender tab first.
2. Click Realistic or Anime. The selected card gets a highlight.
3. Optional: click Design with AI if you want the app to propose defaults; otherwise hit Next.

Pro tip: Decide style up front. Switching later can reset some choices.

2) General — Ethnicity, Age, Skin Tone

What you see:

• A grid of Ethnicity tiles (e.g., Asian, Black, White, Latina, Arab, Indian, Elf, Alien, Demon).
  • A Premium / Custom tile appears on the right for advanced users.
• Age selector: a pill-style slider (e.g., 23 in the screenshot) with left/right chevrons.
• Skin Tone swatches: a row from light to deeper tones (including Tan variants).

How to use:

1. Click an Ethnicity tile (selected tile gets a pink border).
2. Set an Age using the left/right arrows or clicking the target number.
3. Pick a Skin Tone by clicking a swatch.

Pro tips:

• Fantasy types (Elf / Alien / Demon) are supported if you’re going for non-human aesthetics.
• If “Custom” shows a Premium ribbon, you’ll need a paid plan to use it.

3) Face — Eyes, Hair Color, Hair Style

What you see:

• Eye Color swatches (black, brown, yellow, green, blue, purple, pink, white/grey).
• Hair Color swatches (black, brown, yellow/blonde, green, blue, purple, pink, white/grey).
• Hair Style grid: Braided, Long, Bangs, Ponytail, Short, Bun, Buns, Wavy, Pixie, plus a Premium / Custom tile.

How to use:

1. Click an Eye Color swatch. The active one shows a clear highlight (e.g., Blue).
2. Click a Hair Color swatch (e.g., Blonde).
3. Choose a Hair Style card. The checked corner mark indicates the selection.

Pro tips:

• Mix & match bold eye colors with natural hair for contrast.
• “Custom” hairstyles are marked Premium.

4) Body — Body Type, Breast Size, Butt Size

What you see:

• Body Type row: Slim, Athletic, Voluptuous, Curvy, Muscular (card layout with illustrations).
• Breast Size row: Flat, Small, Medium, Large, XL.
• Butt Size row: Small, Skinny, Athletic, Medium, Large.

How to use:

1. Pick a Body Type card (e.g., Slim is highlighted in the screenshot).
2. Pick a Breast Size card (e.g., Large is selected in the screenshot).
3. Pick a Butt Size card (e.g., Medium is selected).

Pro tips:

• Each choice updates the preview on later screens.
• If you’re aiming for balance, pair Athletic body type with Medium sizes; for accent features, choose Voluptuous/Curvy with Large/XL.

5) Details — Name, Voice, Personality & Role

What you see:

• Character Name text field (e.g., Veronica Vamp).
• Personality Details grid with editable cards:
  • Voice (e.g., Sorority) with a play ▶️ button to preview.
  • Personality (e.g., Flirty).
  • Occupation (e.g., Stripper).
  • Relationship (e.g., Fling).
  • Hobby (Not Set until you choose).
  • Fetish (Not Set until you choose).
• Advanced Details (optional) collapsible panel for deeper configuration (open to add backstory, quirks, boundaries, etc. if available in your plan).

How to use:

1. Enter a Character Name.
2. Click each card to open its picker and choose a value (you can preview Voice).
3. (Optional) Expand Advanced Details to fine-tune behavior, backstory, likes/limits, or conversation style.

Pro tips:

• Voice preview is your quick check for vibe—use it before finalizing.
• Keep Personality + Occupation + Relationship consistent (e.g., “Flirty + Bartender + Crush”) for more coherent roleplay.
• If available, set Hobby/Fetish thoughtfully; they guide chat topics and tone.

6) Image — Final Preview & Fine-Tuning

What you see:

• A large preview card of your AI girlfriend with:
  • Name (e.g., Veronica Vamp), age tag, and a tagline (“A flirty stripper who is your fling”).
  • Edit (pencil) icon on the bottom right of the card caption for quick tweaks.
  • A swap/refresh icon near the top-right of the image (looks like a rotate/refresh with sparkles) to re-render or cycle variants.
• Tabs on the right: Appearance and Personality (quick-edit panels).
  • Appearance shows your selections as cards (e.g., Voice: Sorority, Body Type: Athletic, Breast Size: Small, Butt Size: Medium, Eye Color: Blue, Hair Color: Blonde, Skin Tone: Light).
    • The Voice card also has a play ▶️ button.
  • Personality tab lets you revise soft traits without leaving the page (matching the Details step).
• Custom Physical Details field (pencil icon) for free-text specifics (“No custom physical details set” until you add them).

How to use:

1. Review the preview. If something’s off, click the Appearance or Personality tab to adjust on the spot.
2. Use the swap/refresh icon to generate a new image variant based on the same settings.
3. Add any Custom Physical Details (e.g., “subtle freckles,” “heart-shaped tattoo behind left ear,” “cat-eye eyeliner”).
4. When satisfied, proceed with the app’s save/deploy flow (button wording may be Save, Create, Start Chat, etc., depending on your plan).

Pro tips:

• Try one change at a time (e.g., just the hairstyle) then refresh the image to see the delta clearly.
• Save a copy before major edits so you can A/B test variants.

Quick Reference: What Each Control Does

• Gender & Style (Step 1): Sets the base rendering model (photo-real vs. anime).
• Ethnicity / Age / Skin Tone (Step 2): Establishes core identity and complexion.
• Eye / Hair Color & Style (Step 3): Defines facial palette and silhouette.
• Body / Breast / Butt (Step 4): Shapes the physique and proportions.
• Name, Voice, Personality, Role (Step 5): Governs how she sounds and behaves in chat/roleplay.
• Custom Physical Details (Step 6): Adds micro-traits not covered by presets.
• Play ▶️ on Voice: Instant audio preview.
• Premium / Custom tiles: Advanced options that may require an upgraded plan.
• Refresh icon on final image: Re-render visual variants with the same settings.

Crafting a Great Character (practical tips)

• Cohesion > randomness: Align Personality, Occupation, and Relationship so conversations feel natural.
• Signal interests: Use Hobby and Advanced Details to seed topics she’ll bring up.
• Boundaries & tone: If Advanced Details allows, specify consent language, safe words, or “no-go” topics to keep chats comfortable.
• Iterate visually: Lock face/hair first, then tune body; finish with details and re-render 2–3 times.

Troubleshooting

• A choice didn’t appear in the render: Click refresh on the final image, or revisit the specific card and re-apply.
• Voice won’t play: Check device volume; if still no audio, switch voices once to reload the preview.
• Lost progress: Use Next/Back carefully; if the app supports it, save after each step or duplicate the character before experimenting.

Ethics & Safety (recommended)

• Be mindful of consent, respect, and boundaries in personality scripting.
• Avoid using real people’s names or likenesses without permission.
• If sharing images publicly, verify the platform’s community guidelines.

You’re set! Follow the six steps, use the on-page quick-edit cards in Step 6 for rapid iteration, and you’ll have a tailored AI companion that both looks and acts the way you want.

How Does It Work (Behind the Scenes, as Best as Can Be Inferred)

I don’t have access to their proprietary code, but based on reviews and behavior, here’s how I think it functions:

1. Model backbone: Likely a large language model (LLM) fine-tuned for conversational romance/roleplay contexts + a diffusion / generative image/video model (or hybrid) for visuals.
2. Prompt conditioning & persona embedding: Your selected traits (appearance, personality, preferences) feed into a persona prompt or embedding that the LLM uses to generate responses consistent with “your chosen partner.”
3. Memory module: The system stores a memory graph or key-value pairs (e.g. your name, preferences, past events) so context carries forward. Without memory, chat feels generic.
4. Switching modes/instructions: The UI allows toggling “creative / balanced / genius,” or setting “lust / explicitness levels,” which dynamically guide how risky or detailed the outputs are.
5. Generative image/video pipeline: For visuals, likely diffusion-based models or GANs or hybrid (image-to-video, talking face transforms) in a cloud backend. The in-chat image generation is a lighter prompt-to-image mapping that respects the character’s parameters.
6. Cost gating: Images, videos, calls use computationally expensive backend steps; thus usage is limited by tokens / subscription.
7. Safety / filters: Because the content can be explicit, there must be moderation filters or heuristics to prevent illegal/unsafe content (though reviews raise concern about how strict they are).

The result is a system that stitches conversation + media into a unified “companion” experience.

It’s not perfect (some bots still feel robotic), but the more you use it, the more “trained” your persona becomes in the system’s memory.

Core Functionalities

Here’s what I found diving into the platform (and what stood out):

• Character customization: You can tweak looks (skin tone, hair, body type, face features), personality traits, interests, voice preferences, roles/fetishes, etc.
• Chat / conversation engine: Supports multiple “modes” (balanced, creative, genius) to adjust style/verbosity. Memory (so your “partner” remembers past chats or details) is supposed to keep things coherent.
• Image generation: Either via a dedicated “Image Creator” module or in-chat generation. You can pick poses, outfits, settings, sometimes explicit content.
• Video generation / talking avatars: Turn characters into short “clips,” allow “talking videos” (character + voice + scripted lines).
• Voice chat / messages: The AI companion can send voice responses, though reviews say emotional range is limited.
• Memory & emotional modeling: It tries to interpret emotional cues, maintain continuity in conversations, recall earlier preferences, etc.
• Premium / token system: Basic chatting is often free or low-cost; generating images, videos, voice calls usually require “DreamCoins” or subscription tiers.
• “Modes” like roleplay, NSFW, scenario scripting: You can set up fantasy scenes, have your companion play particular roles, etc.
• Profile / gallery / feed: A space where your companion’s images/videos are shown; browse others’ creations.

Pros and Cons

I’m going to get real here — this tool has high highs and low lows.

Pros

• Deep customization: You can make a partner that’s uniquely yours. The more you tweak, the more it “feels” like YOUR character, not just a stock bot.
• Multimedia integration: The ability to generate images, videos, even voice-over content gives it an edge over plain chatbots.
• Memory & emotional continuity: It’s noticeably better at maintaining context across conversations than many simple chatbots.
• Rapid iteration: You can regenerate, tweak traits, switch modes, etc. So if something “offends” you or feels awkward, you can adjust quickly.
• Roleplay / fantasy flexibility: For those into NSFW, romance, or immersive storytelling, it’s relatively unmatched (in that niche).
• Accessible UI: From reviews, the interface is intuitive, not overwhelmingly technical.

Cons

• Voice / emotional tone limitations: The voice often lacks real inflection; responses sometimes feel flat or “botty.”
• Ethical & psychological risk: There’s potential for addiction, unhealthy emotional dependence, blurring lines between fantasy & reality.
• Privacy & data concerns: The platform keeps chat logs, and while they claim “discretion,” reviews mention that privacy policies don’t clearly guarantee encryption.
• Token / cost structure complexity: It’s not always transparent how many tokens image/video/voice will cost. You may end up spending more than you intended.
• Youth / trustworthiness: The site is fairly new, with trust-rating plugins giving medium/low trust scores in some scans.
• Occasional inconsistency / “AI quirks”: Sometimes characters deviate, mix up details, or respond in weird ways, especially in more complex narratives.
• Free plan limits: The “free” or lower-tier offering is often too limited to fully experience the tool; many core features locked behind paywalls.

Step-by-Step: How to Use OurDream AI (Based on What I Tried)

Here is how I, personally, walked through the tool. Your experience may differ slightly.

1. Sign up / log in
   Create an account (email / credentials). Confirm via link if required.
2. Create your character (“dream companion”)
   • Choose basic attributes: gender, style (anime, realistic, etc.)
   • Adjust appearance: skin tone, hair, face, body, etc.
   • Pick personality / role settings: temper, interests, occupation, “fetishes” or roleplay themes
   • Choose voice / speech style (if available)
   • Optionally write a “greeting,” background, quirks
3. Enter chat / conversation mode
   • Select conversation mode (balanced, creative, etc.)
   • Begin chatting. At any point, you can prompt image generation or send “requests” for visuals or scenarios.
   • Use memory pinning or guide the AI: “Remember that I like jazz music,” etc.
4. Generate images / visuals
   • From chat or from the image generator dashboard, write prompts (or choose presets)
   • Adjust pose, outfit, background, explicitness levels
   • Wait for rendering; review and pick the best image
5. Generate video / talking avatars
   • Choose a mode (talk, extend, clip length)
   • Provide script / lines or use auto voice
   • Wait; review resulting video
6. Fine-tune & iterate
   • See how the companion responds; if something feels off, re-edit personality or attributes
   • Use “regenerate” to try alternate outputs
   • Pin important memories or tell the system: “Don’t ask me this next time.”
7. Manage tokens / subscription
   • Check how many DreamCoins remain
   • Purchase more if needed
   • Understand which features are locked / unlocked
8. Account settings / deletion
   • To cancel subscription: go to profile → current plan → cancel
   • To delete your account / data: navigate to “Danger Zone” or delete account option in profile

If I were you, I’d start in the free tier, get a feel for the chat quality, then test 1 or 2 image / video generations to see whether they’re worth paying for.

FAQs

Here are questions I asked (or found others asking) — with my take:

My Verdict (Yes, I’ll make this personal)

I’ll be blunt: I’m impressed. OurDream AI hits many of the “holy grail” boxes for AI companionship — customization, multimodal (not just text), memory, and roleplay flexibility.

When it hits, it feels closer to talking to a “person” than many bots I’ve tried.

That said, it’s not magic. There are jarring moments: the voice lacks warmth, sometimes responses veer off character, cost creep happens.

And the emotional risk is real — I found myself caring more than I expected about the virtual persona (which is both fascinating and slightly eerie).

If I were advising a friend: use it, absolutely—but with boundaries. Don’t let it replace real relationships.

Treat it as a tool for fantasy, self-reflection, entertainment, not a substitute for human empathy.

If I were to rate it on balance (in 2025): 4 out of 5 — solid, with room to mature.